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6th Sunday in Ordinary Time (A) - “Before man are life and death, good and evil, whichever he chooses shall be given him."

During this past Advent, less than a week before Christmas, I was hearing confessions at a penance service at another parish.  A young man who was probably in college or a recent graduate came up and sat next to me in the pew and began, “To be honest, Father, I’m here because I’m home for Christmas visiting my folks.  My mother wants us to go to Mass as a family on Christmas and said that I need to go to confession first, but I’m not sure I believe any of this.  It probably hasn’t been since when I was Confirmed, maybe when I was 12, that I last went to Confession.  I don’t go to Mass.  There are many teachings of the Church that don’t make sense to me or I just disagree with.  It just seems like a bunch of rules.”  The young man may not have been ready for confession, but he wanted to talk.  He wasn’t being belligerent in any way or looking for a debate or an argument.  He was genuinely expressing a struggle many who have been raised in the faith have as they become independent of their parents: Do I believe this?  Do I need the Church?  Do I need a relationship with God?  Can’t I still be a “good person” without being “religious”?  I do not remember exactly all the details of our conversation that went on for a while, but I probably started by asking him the question that Jesus asked the first disciples:  “What are you looking for?”  “What is it that you want out of life?”  If we are not serious about that question - if we are not asking that question, we will not recognize Jesus as the answer to what we are looking for.  What did Jesus say about himself?  “I have come that you may have life and have it to the full.”  Everybody is looking for a fulfilling life.  Maybe we should give Jesus a chance.  It is good and noble to attempt to reach that goal on our own - to pay attention to our desire and seek to fulfill it, but how much time and energy do we think we have to get it right?  Do we have time to study the different philosophers and world religions and try them out and decide which one works best?   Jesus makes this pretty bold claim:  “I am the way, the truth, and the life.  No one comes to the Father except through me” (John 14:6).  Instead of trying to figure it out on our own, maybe we should try the path that has been revealed by God.  As children, we may not have had much choice when it came to going to church, and when that is the case, we may just think, “I’m going to get in trouble if I fight my parents on this”, so we go.  If that is our attitude, we are not going to be open to any goodness or blessing or even teaching that is offered through the Church.  And then when I am out of the house and no one is making me go or threatening me with a punishment if don’t go, I no longer go.  What happened?  Perhaps one was never given an adequate reason to go to Church or never discovered an adequate reason to practice the faith.  I told the young man that now as an independent adult, he had the opportunity to choose for himself - to see, to judge for himself whether what the Church proposes is true - to discover that reason.  I told him that the teachings of the Church are rooted in divine revelation and thousands of years of the Church reflecting on that revelation guided by the Holy Spirit.  The Church knows what it means to be human, and Christ came to fulfill our humanity.  God wants our happiness and fulfillment.  The commandments are not to control us but to guide us in the way of life and to keep us safe in the sense of teaching us how to avoid what hurts us or would become an obstacle to our fulfillment.  Why do we teach the commandments and moral law?  A Catholic commentator put it this way, “God is forgiving, but nature is not.”  If we sin, i.e., choose against what has been revealed as in line with our destiny and fulfillment, we will be hurt or wounded interiorly and in our relationships with others.  We can still be forgiven, but such choices, whether we believe them to be sins or not, still hurt us.  Ask anyone who has fallen for the lie that the hook-up culture is selling.  Likewise, infidelity and the use of pornography hurt a marriage whether the parties involved believe that they are committing a sin or not.  Sin carries its own punishment.  God will warn us and reveal the path to life, but he will not take away our freedom to choose because he wants us to choose to follow him freely.  He will not force us to do the right thing.  He respects our freedom.  Sirach puts it this way, “Before man are life and death, good and evil, whichever he chooses shall be given him.”  God does not “punish” us for sinning.  God is trying to save us from this punishment.  It is not OK for anyone to sin - “none does he give license to sin.” But the secular culture and those with an immature faith do not see it that way.  Should we expect a secular culture and those who have been formed in that culture to see or to understand the wisdom of the Church?  St. Paul addresses the Corinthian Christians who were a minority in a very pagan culture about this very thing: “We speak a wisdom to those who are mature, not a wisdom of this age, nor of the rulers of this age who are passing away.  Rather, we speak God’s wisdom, mysterious, hidden, which God predetermined before the ages for our glory…”  Our salvation is presented as a contradiction the world cannot understand - a God who became man, who suffered, and willingly offered his life for the forgiveness of our sins.  We cannot make sense of this except through the gift of the Holy Spirit - the love of God poured out into our hearts that makes known the wise and loving plan of God.  

          So I encouraged the young man not just to choose to keep the commandments, but to seek a relationship with Jesus through the Church.  The Enlightenment project was an attempt for man to be good and to live ethically without the need for religion.  But all of these man-made attempts that are based on atheistic philosophy and the scientific method  - e.g, Marxism, Communism, and all of its variants and permutations including the Woke-ism we are dealing with today have only served to degrade our humanity and wreak havoc on our civilization.  The more sophisticated contemporary atheists will admit that religion plays an important role in a healthy society and that we are worse off as a society as religious belief and practice declines.  The secularists or enlightenment humanists have found no proper substitute for religion.  The moral law is a description of what life looks like when someone lives in union with Christ - when someone follows Christ.  The error of the secularists is to think that this “good life” can be lived detached from the source of that life.  That source is God.  And the grace to live that life is available to us through the sacraments of the Church, and we are supported in that life through the community of the faithful, the Body of Christ.  We cannot live a life of faith alone.

          Recently, the Church has seen a significant increase in Mass attendance and in those seeking admission to the Church - those seeking baptism, especially among young people.  Archbishop Perez put out a message last week sharing the news that Mass attendance in the Archdiocese increased 7.5% in 2025 compared to the year before.  This is a good sign that more people are waking up to the emptiness of a life without God.  They have come to realize that they have been sold a bill of goods by the dominant culture. The human heart is made for God, and God has revealed the way to our heart’s fulfillment through Jesus Christ and his Church.   As we prepare to begin the season of Lent this week, I ask you to examine how you choose to spend your time and how you choose to spend your money.  The choices we make in our freedom reveal where our priorities are and what we value in life.  Take a look honestly to see if those choices align with our human fulfillment or not.  Do they align with a life lived in union with Jesus or not?  As Jesus points out in the Gospel, those choices apply not only to exterior behavior but to the choices we make in our hearts.  Lent is a time to make the necessary adjustments to allow the Lord to enter our hearts.  Jesus came not to abolish but to fulfill the law.  Love is the fulfillment of the law, and to love is never in opposition to the law.  As we receive the Lord today in Holy Communion, let us pray, “Lord, give me discernment, that I may observe your law and keep it with all my heart.”