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24th Sunday in Ordinary Time - Do we see ourselves as sons and daughters of God?

The three parables in today’s Gospel are Jesus’ response to the Pharisees and scribes who begin complaining when they see Jesus welcoming and eating with sinners.  The parables always are intended to reveal who God is and at the same time call us to conversion -  to reexamine ourselves and the way we see our relationship to God and the way we are living our faith.  The Pharisees and the scribes don’t understand the method of Jesus - why he is doing what he is doing.  They are perplexed and perhaps somewhat jealous also that the tax collectors and sinners were all drawing near to listen to Jesus.  Why are they attracted to Jesus and listen to Jesus but not to us?  The concluding refrain of the three parables, “rejoice with me” because what was lost has been found - a sinner has repented - is  an invitation to respond to the sinner in a different way.  Jesus is saying, “in the way you are living your faith and responding to the sinner, you are missing out on a great joy.”  In the third parable, the parable of the prodigal son, the older brother represents the Pharisees and scribes and the way they conceive of their relationship with God.  They are the exemplars when it comes to living in conformity with the law, but they are bitter and resentful because it seems to them that the father does not recognize their “goodness” - they have not been rewarded for their goodness.  “Look, all these years I served you and not once did I disobey your orders; yet you never gave me even a young goat to feast on with my friends.”  He is angry because his brother who was unfaithful and has sinned greatly is given something he doesn’t deserve.  The older brother does not see himself as a son but as a servant.  I’ve been a good servant, and I’ve gotten nothing.  His been a bad servant, and gets the fatted calf!  But sonship is a relationship that is given; it is not a relationship that is earned.  We are sons and daughters of God by virtue of his grace and mercy, not because of our goodness.  “My son, you are here with me always; everything I have is yours.”  What matters is being with the Father.  Everything he has - his life - is given to us.  There are no conditions.  What the Father has is not something we earn or deserve.  This is what the scribes and the Pharisees miss - and what we often miss as well.  As gravely as the younger son sins - as bad as he is, he always sees himself as a son of the father.  He doesn’t lose that awareness of being a son but knows that he doesn’t deserve it - he doesn’t have a right to his sonship.  “I no longer deserve to be called your son.”  He knows he is a sinner, but at the same time, he knows that he cannot live apart from this relationship with the Father.  He needs the presence of the Father.  Just having a rule is not enough.  Our sonship is built on God’s mercy, not our goodness.  This is made evident in the way the father in the parable restores the prodigal son to his full stature as son - symbolized by the fine robe, the ring, and the sandals, when the son returns with nothing to offer but a humble and contrite heart.  The older son is very good at following the rule, but is lacking in this attachment to the father.  The older son has made himself the measure of the relationship.  “Look how I served you and not once did I disobey your orders.”  This is the obstacle to unity.  What unites us to God and to one another is not our ability to follow a law but that we are all sinners in need of God’s mercy.  What we all have in common is that we are sinners.  What unites us is God’s mercy for the sinner.  If we recognize that, we can come together and rejoice.  What St. Paul recognizes that we often miss is that living a virtuous life - being able to live a moral life - does not come from our strength but from God’s mercy.  Living the moral life is a grace to be thankful for, not something to hold up that makes us better than others or more deserving than others.  Saint Paul says, “I am grateful to him who has strengthened me, Christ Jesus our Lord…”  He has been converted not through his efforts or knowledge, but through Christ’s mercy.  Paul, like the younger son, thought he knew better than the Father, but Christ sought him out and treated him with mercy.  Paul knows that he is a sinner, a big sinner, but that the grace of the Lord has been abundant in his life.  He was arrogant, a Pharisee, zealous for the law, yet was still loved and wanted by the Lord.  The Lord was patient with him.  Christ came into the world to save sinners.  How do we see ourselves and fellow sinners?  Are we self-righteous like the scribes, Pharisees, and the older brother, and see ourselves as better or more deserving because of our goodness, or are we like Paul who understands because of his experience of mercy that all the good in his life is a gift and a grace?  If living the moral life is not a response to God’s mercy and grace, then it cannot be lived with joy.  If we think the moral life is the result of our efforts and goodness, then we will just resort to telling others what the right thing to do is and for them to work harder, instead of welcoming them to share in the life we’ve received and to experience the Father’s mercy.  Christ wants us to share in his joy, the joy of being instruments of the Father’s mercy.  Are we attached to the Father or are we attached to a rule?  Do we see ourselves as sons and daughters of God or slaves of the divine master?  Only if we see ourselves as sons and daughters - a relationship born through God’s surprising mercy, will we get up and return to the Father when we have betrayed and sinned.